I’d like to hug my cat but they won’t let me – why?
Here are 10 common reasons why many cats really don’t like
too much close and personal handling:
1. Cats
prefer choice. This means that if your cat approaches you and wants to get
close and have a cuddle, then by all means engage in some mutual loving.
2. Cats do
not like to feel trapped and most dislike being restrained especially if they
have no option to escape. Try and avoid picking them up and hugging them
tightly. If they have all four paws on the ground they will feel happier.
3. Research
has shown that if we handle kittens properly they will be more likely to
respond to being handled as adults. The crucial time for this is between 3 and
8 weeks. Short, gentle and regular handling sessions throughout the day is
recommended. Try and ensure that a range of different people get involved so
that they will be socialized to men, women and children (under supervision).
4. Cats
generally do not like their tummies being touched. This is a vulnerable area
for cats so avoid tickling or stroking them there.
5. A large
number of cats have a low threshold for time spent cuddling. Try and have
regular but shorter episodes of contact.
6. In cat
language, a raised tail in the shape of a question mark is a greeting. If a cat
approaches you like this it’s usually an invitation to stroke and pet them.
7. Cats have
a number of scent glands on their body. An abundance of these are found on
their face. When they rub you, they are exchanging their scent. You can take
this as a compliment as they are sharing their scent profile with you.
8. Cats show
affiliation to another cat by mutual grooming and licking. If your cat likes to
lick you it’s likely that they see you as a member of their social group.
9. Some cats
are just not tactile. Many show their affection by choosing to sit close to
you. If this describes your cat be content that they are wanting to be around
you.
10. A slow
blink is another way that a cat will show you affection. Try doing it back –
most cats will respond.
So if your cat isn’t the hugging kind, just show them
affection in different ways and be grateful that they choose to live with you.
Remember to give them choice and respect their species’
specific behaviours. By doing this your cat is more likely to want to be with
you.
Caroline Clark is a consultant in animal behaviour counselling and you can find more information at www.peteducationandtraining.co.uk
Caroline Clark is a consultant in animal behaviour counselling and you can find more information at www.peteducationandtraining.co.uk
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